Central New York Collaborative Divorce Lawyers
We, at Kalil & Eisenhut, LLC, often tell our clients that most divorces do not have to be marked by frustration, strife or all-out war. In a contested divorce, the climate is naturally going to be adversarial, and both parties’ attorneys are going to do their best to show the other spouse in a negative light. This leads to animosity in the future: if you have children, where good relations with your former spouse are most desirable, this may be next to impossible.
Collaborative Divorces are an innovative, less formal method of obtaining a divorce, in which you, your spouse, and your respective attorneys agree to resolve the issues using cooperative strategies rather than adversarial techniques and litigation. This process of open communication involves a series of "four way" meetings with each party and their attorney present. Unlike a traditional courtroom setting, the collaborative format allows for, and encourages, open and frank discussions between everyone. If a settlement cannot be reached, and someone chooses to go to Court, the Collaborative attorneys are no longer allowed to continue, and each party must secure a new attorney. Understanding that going to Court means your attorney is out of the case, removes the incentive of attempting to "win at all costs" from the collaborative process.
When engaging in a collaborative divorce, the husband and wife as well as their respective attorneys work together as a team to come up with solutions to all issues inherent in any divorce. Collaborative divorce is a more peaceable way to handle your dissolution.
If you are considering divorce, give thought to the benefits of a collaborative approach. At the law firm of Kalil & Eisenhut, LLC, we have helped numerous clients divorce wisely, amicably, cost-effectively. Contact us today for a free consultation.
Collaborative Divorce — Thinking Outside of the Box
When you decide to divorce collaboratively, the decision-making is placed in your hands — the rules are different. Removing divorce court from the equation means that you can settle matters without pressure. Through collaboration, we are able to address matters holistically. From our experience, we have learned to anticipate the objections and potential problems that may arise. By addressing real-world, domestic issues such as the possibility of a parent’s boyfriend or girlfriend moving into the house, we can alleviate problems in the future.
Integrity as a Starting Point
The collaborative process is about integrity. Maintaining honesty and openness in matters from the outset can help you to address matters related to child custody and support, equitable distribution and spousal support with clarity and a mind toward resolution. This level of vulnerability allows you, and your spouse, to make determinations that are specific and effective. This is a compelling alternative to letting the court resolve issues with generic solutions.
Resolving family law and divorce matters is never easy, but it does not have to be marked by hostility, anxiety or opposition. At the Utica-based law firm of Kalil & Eisenhut, LLC, we encourage our clients to take advantage of peaceable ways of resolving marital dissolution matters. This has been the cornerstone of our practice. For more information or to schedule a free initial consultation, contact us today.
